Everyone thinks they can love from nature. But this is not true - love needs to learn a lot, it needs to be carefully grown, like the most delicate flower.
Love is unconditional. This is its main principle. And this means that they love not for something, but just like that.
From this there are several consequences. I should not strive to please - they should accept me for who I am. Otherwise, a person will not love me, but a certain image - but I do not need it.
Love does not have to do anything to deserve the answer. Love is not a game for earning points earned more - love, did not earn - I do not like. Love is not bought and not sold.
Who loves to receive reciprocity must not do anything. All that he does is based on his inner need to give, to please. Should not, but wants - feel the difference?
The only thing I can do is show your feeling, show yourself to the present, trust, open up. Remove all armor and defenselessly substitute yourself. Because without trust, Love is impossible. Are you agree?