I'm sure the club isn't the best place to find love, the same I can say about the bars and other public places. I need more than one evening to understand does this person suit me or not? I will never say "dear" the next day after we meet, I also won't say "I love you" in a week because I'm used to think at less twice before saying something and I believe every our word has a very deep meaning.
It is also a bad idea to build relations at work, it is unprofessional, unethical and just stupid. Everything what happens at work must stay there. Of course I will share my emotions with my loved one but he can't be my colleague.
cooking, reading, travel, hiking outdoor activities
For me very important what is in your head and soul at the same time, I like mysteries. I want discovering something brand new in each other with my loved one everyday. So here I am and I'm looking for the man with the same principles as I have. I can't write all what I am looking but maybe my love was handmade for somebody like you?